you are what you wear | oklahoma city family photographer


You are what you wear.
A little clichĂ©?  Perhaps.  But when it comes to portrait photography, clothing plays a huge role in the success of the finished product.
Before we get going – let’s be clear what your clothing does NOT need to be:
  1. Brand New I’m down with your favorite ripped jeans, retro band T’s, and worn converse - as long as you know how to rock them in your own fabulous style.
  2. Fancy-Schmancy and Uber-Expensive Unless it’s your thing (If it’s really your thing, then by all means baby, bring on the bling).   If you’re not normally a dress-up kind of person, don’t feel like you have to be one for your session.
  3. Matching No need to focus on matching everything from the color of your fuchsia headbands to the stripes in your socks.  In fact, I beg of you, please, please don’t.  If you’re heart is set on everyone in white button downs and khaki pants, I’m probably not your girl.
  4. Stressful No need to worry about each and every item, or fret about the suitability of each accessory.  This is supposed to be fun.   If you’re unsure – call me, and together, we’ll make sure you look fabulous.  I promise.
I want you to be happy, thrilled, over the moon about your images, and I know that this is much more likely if we take the time and work together to help you choose clothing that fits these few simple rules:
Feels Good.
During your shoot you could be sitting in a pile on the grass having a tickle battle, rolling down a hill with your fiancĂ©, throwing your kiddos in the air or climbing a tree. Wear clothing that lets you do all that (and more) comfortably.
As for the kids? Well…uncomfortable kids have a tendency to look…uncomfortable, and are often cranky to boot. Happy kids make for happy pictures.
Bottom Line: Don’t choose outfits that make any of you feel constrained, stiff, itchy, scratchy, like you’re dressed up for Halloween, or that leave you with a nagging worry that a button might pop if you bend the wrong way. Trust me.
Looks Good.
This can be tricky, looking good is totally subjective – right? If you’re not a fashionista in real life, you might want to pull in some extra help from a straight-talking friend or your trusty photographer (that would be me) who knows about such things and has plans in place to help.
Sometimes last year’s of-the-moment dress has already become hopelessly untrendy. Sometimes the current fashions just don’t look or feel like you. Sometimes outfits that look good in the mirror might not be ideally suited for photography.
Bottom Line: If you don’t feel fabulous-fierce-take-on-the-world gorgeous in your outfit, you’re not going to love, love, love the end result – and I’m all about you love, love, loving the end result.
Makes Sense.
Here’s where we pull it all together. It’s not just enough that everyone look good and feel good – you’ve gotta look and feel good together AND the outfits should fit with your location and the desired mood for your portraits.
Gulp. That seems like a lot, doesn’t it? (quick – revisit #4 in the top list, and remember, don’t stress).
Before you even begin figuring out your wardrobe, we’ll have talk about what you really want for your pictures, choose the perfect location and make sure you have an understanding about how that all comes together in the finished photograph.   I’m with you every step of the way.
Bottom Line: It’s easier than it seems. Think twice about having Emma in a lace prom dress if you can’t get Tommy out of his spider man cape and favorite Star Wars pajama top. If we’re going to be running around in a park, you’ll likely not decide to wear your starched Sunday best. Hate the way stripes and plaids look together but Dad has his favorite stripped polo ready to go? Best steer mom away from her beloved family tartan. Easy-Peasy. [unless Mom is really attached to that tartan, but we’ll cross that bridge when we come to it).
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If you’re still not certain, and you can’t decide between the yellow wrap dress with your red heels or your dark skinny jeans and purple  belted shirt – I’ve got good news.  You don’t have to decide.   Bring lots of options.  Hey – throw your whole wardrobe into the back of the car.  When we get to the session we’ll wing it all with fabulous results.  Trust me.
Now take a deep breath.  Close your eyes.  Imagine how blow-everyone-away-fabulous-ready-for-America’s-Next-Top-Model  you’re all going to look in those pictures….
Can you see it yet?  I totally can.  You look INCREDIBLE!
I can’t wait for your session.
(used with permission from the amazing Phoenix photographer Jeanette LeBlanc. check her out!)

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two is pretty terrific | oklahoma city child photographer

What more can you ask for when you're two years old?

Balloons.
M&M candies.
Puddles.
Snowballs.

I met up with the Pierson family to capture a few 2 year old shots of Daxton.  You might remember Mr. D from his 1st birthday shoot here.  We've become pretty good pals, if I do say so.

On this photo adventure, we took a little field trip a la wagon around Bricktown in downtown Oklahoma City and enjoyed the warm evening.  When you're two, you sometimes have to have a little incentive to let a crazy camera girl to follow you around.  This time I learned that Daxton's favorite candy is M&M's.  Gotta love 'em!



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And with the snow mostly melted, there were lots of puddles to play in and splash!  Now the fun begins.  Look at this boy's moves!!  Shake what your momma gave ya!
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tucker family | western oklahoma family photographer

It's been a nice little winter break around here at Rebekah Photography, catching up on business, planning, designing, etc.  And I know! An extreme lack of blogging!  I have so many sessions from the Christmas holidays that never were blogged but hopefully I can catch up in the next several days and share a few shots from some of the session.

But maybe, just maybe, you'll forgive me when you see the new website redesign!  Go check it out!

Also, if you're reading this blog on Google Reader or another rss feed, you've gotta stop in to the blog and see its redesign.  It's still a bit of a work in progress...and probably will be as I like to change things up a bit every now & then...but I'm loving it!  So click here and go see for yourself.  By the way, you can also go directly to the photo blog by entering www.rebekahphotoblog.com in your address toolbar.

Thankfully it looks like spring just might have arrived in Oklahoma and I'm loving it!  Warmer temps and sunshine means awesome on-location photo shoots all around OKC and more!  Email me to book your session as weekend sessions in the spring seem to go rather quickly!

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You never know in Oklahoma what kind of weather you're going to get in January!  Thankfully, we had a rare sunny day in January to celebrate little P's 1st birthday with a photo shoot.  And of course, we had to capture some family shots of this beautiful family!  
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Locations: Hydro, OK & downtown Lookeba, OK

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Plan on stopping into the blog much more often in the coming days.  I'll be sharing sessions, posting some "What To Wear" posts to help with fashion ideas for your shoot, interviewing some fabulous local business owners, featuring some cool online sites you'll definitely want to visit and sharing some photo tips for all of you beginner photographers & moms with cameras!  Bookmark the blog and check back in often.

And remember. Life is colorful. Go out and live it.

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